What Is the Hurry About?
The new 2025 calendar in our house has prompted a lot of conversations about time.
My kids have been asking:
Why is it a new year now?
Will I still be in the same grade when I go back to school after winter break?
This has led to more wondering, about leap years, and why February is the shortest month, and why some months have 31 days and others only 30.
Our measurements of time can feel so strange and arbitrary.
Do Americans Even Know How To Rest?
Cross-stitch is one of my family traditions.
I remember my mom, and her mom, working on cross-stitch projects most nights while we watched TV together. They both taught me this analog art as a kid, and after a 20-year hiatus, I picked it up again when I was recovering from severe illness a couple years ago.
Plugging away on small projects, I developed a new admiration for the perseverance and diligence it takes to complete a large piece, like the framed samplers that lined the walls of my grandparents’ and parents’ houses.
My older sister just inherited one of these samplers from my mom and texted me a photo of it yesterday.
Satisfaction and Joy? Yes, Even Now.
I don’t know about you, but I’m feeling a need to brainwash myself with hope and wisdom right now.
Between the rainy weather, darker days, and our charged sociopolitical landscape, I feel like I’ve been struck by a giant wave of grief and terror. Slammed facedown onto the shore. Disoriented and confused, I wipe the sand from my eyes, searching for the horizon. Reaching out for a strong hand to hold. Listening for a comforting voice.
Less Push. More Breath.
The energy out there is tense, my friends.
Are you feeling it?
I’m feeling it.
It’s in the daily texts begging for just ONE MORE donation to a campaign fund.
It’s in the pleas to join ONE MORE phone bank or volunteer event. It’s in the inflammatory and fear-mongering headlines, sound bites, and clickbait. It’s in too many conversations devolving into political predictions, analysis, and debate.